I always sand FIRST, then apply the ink with a sponge. I ink up the sponge and with a sweeping motion set the sponge on the paper. Don't set the sponge on the paper and then move it...you will get a big splotch. It seems to take more ink than I first expected and a lot of rubbing. Then I wipe it with a paper towel, and sand again if needed.
Are you using glossy? What kind of sandpaper are you using?
Faux Linen was one of the TLCs not too long ago...let me find the link.
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hope that helps!
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